I just recently had my book club meeting. It was great to
see my friends who are part of it, as we all share the same passion for reading
and sharing our thoughts on the latest books that we recently have read. We love meeting every month and this time we
would love to increase our monthly meetings to twice a month, more of that later
on.
Phone rings: Hello is this Jennifer? I am Chris from PIC?
how are you?
Me on the other line: Sorry I am in the middle of something,
is there anything I can do for you?
Chris: Oh if it’s not the right time to call, I will call
back again later.
Me: No I’ve got a minute, what is it?
(this forces the other person on the other line to stop
beating around the bush and get to the point of why he is calling)
Chris: I would like to sell you some insurance.
SECOND SCENARIO: MEETING
Chris arrives at my front door: Hi Jenny, I am here for our
meeting to present to you an investment.
Me: Yes Chris, come in. I only have 30 minutes for this as I
have an appointment afterwards. Lets see what you have.
(This cuts the dilly dollying conversations and gets to the
core of his purpose of being there. I gave a momentum of 30 minutes for the
other person to cut the chase and use of the time given wisely)
Why is this important for me? Because other more important
things get compromised when you continue to waste time. It is like a domino
effect where one priority can affect the other if not managed wisely.
I have been recently been unloading my activities lately to
free up more of my time. This helps me to become more focused on things that
really matter. I have been absolutely picky on activities that I do for the
day, people that I go to and even talk to and have limited the use of browsing
any social media that usually consumes most of my down time. I have recently
applied the 20/80 rule in my life and it has been so effective to me so far.
What is the 20/80 principle?
The 20/80 principle is the law of income distribution called
the Pareto’s Law. It is used in economics and states that 80 percent of wealth
and income was produced by only 20 percent of the population.
80 percent of consequences flow from 20 percent of the
causes.
80 percent of the results comes from the 20 percent of the
effort and time.
80 percent of all stock market gains are only realized by 20
percent of investors.
But the 20/80 principle can be
applied to our personal life as well. Its for people like me who have a problem
with saying NO to everyone. This
principle I have learned to apply in my business and personal life especially
in time management. When I have identified my 20 percent action that is giving
me 80 percent results both negative and positive, it became very easy for me to
get things done.
1. Which
20 percent of my actions that causes 80 percent of my problems, stress and
unhappiness?
2. Which
20 percent of my actions are resulting in 80 percent of my desired outcomes in
life and happiness?
It’s only that 20 percent that we
do in a day that gives us 80 percent of our income. It’s only that 20 percent
of what we do that makes our family and friends love us even more. It’s only
those 20 percent that we do that will really matter, that will make us get
picked for that job that we really want. That is why small things are really
big things.
Lets not fill our days with activities that
don’t really matter and we wonder at the end of the day why we feeling
exhausted and wish that we have more time in a day. Lets not confuse Activity
vs Productivity. Lack of time is
actually just lack of priorities.
The key to getting what we really
want in life is focus, and to be able to have more is really to concentrate on
less. Stop the obsession on results by volume approach, I don’t think we’d get
anywhere with that. Remember what gets
measured gets managed according to Peter Drucker, management theorist. The key
is to really just FOCUS.
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